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Learning To Love Cum. Sort of.

It's no secret that I don't like cum. I fear the stuff. Even pre-cum. I've never liked cum from anyone. Ever. I enjoy giving Stefano blowjobs, but just don't like the pre-cum that oozes out of him while I do it. I used to hate the idea of having cum getting on me. Even dripping out of my pussy was gross. But I've started to warm up to it lately and here's how I'm starting to get over my fear of cum. Maybe it will help you too!

Use Flavored Condoms

First up, condoms! I've been married to Stefano for 20 years now and we don't need condoms for sex. But we do use them for blowjobs now. It's something we've recently tried and I enjoy. Not always, but usually he puts one on for me if I plan to suck on him for more than a minute or two. Flavored condoms are the best, with strawberry being my favorite. You can see this for yourself with most of the blowjob scenes we have at Pornhub. The red condom is usually obvious in our videos.

To make the experience even better, I put several drops of coconut oil (our go-to lube) on my hand and rub it in. It makes things better for my hand and in my mouth while I suck on him. I would normally only last a minute with a blowjob but now I can suck on Stefano for five to ten minutes without any issues. After that my mouth does get tired but that's a different issue!

Increase Frequency

Your guy will love this one, but giving blow jobs more often will help you get over it. I found that once we started porn we were doing lots of blowjob scenes. If Stefano got a BJ once every couple of weeks before, he was now getting one every other day because that's how often we shoot porn and it often starts with a BJ. The more I did it the more I enjoyed it, mostly because I saw how much it turned him on.

The more I did it, the better I got at it as well. All of that leads to a better experience and less fear of cum. Especially when wearing a condom and I knew no cum would get in my mouth. Get rid of the issues that bother you and suddenly the sex act becomes far more fun.

Cum Shots

If you hate cum then having a guy cum anywhere on you likely won't be fun for you. For 20 years Stefano never came on me. There was probably an exception or two. For example, I've given him plenty of hand jobs over the years and usually jerk him off into a towel and sometimes a tiny bit might get on me. But he never really pulled out to cum on me.

Fast forward and we now have over 50 porn videos published and Stefano has cum on me more times than I can count. He cums on my stomach, back, tits, neck, and so on. It's even got in my hair a couple of times and while that still grosses me out and I don't feel like I'm going to barf. Well, mostly at least. Stefano is good about cleaning me up right after the camera turns off.

I've never let a guy cum on my face. Not ever, not even close. Never more than on my stomach even! I never thought I'd let Stefano cum on my face either but I've actually somehow agreed to give it a try. I'm nervous for sure. So we're working up to it. In a few of our most recent videos Stefano has cum on my tits, moving up a bit higher each time. Just the other night we shot a scene where he came on my neck and tits. I didn't love it, but a year ago and I would have barfed if that happened. I'm warming up to it.

As of this writing, we haven't shot my first cum facial scene yet but it's going to happen very soon. Who knows, if it doesn't kill me maybe there will be many more in my future.

Fluids

Some guys have thick, sticky cum. I'm really not a fan of that. Somehow when it's thinner and a bit more runny it seems less like thick snot being flung on me. At the same time, the smell and taste of cum is what really bothers me.

To help with all of these we've found that changing diet helps a bit with the taste and smell. For example, try more bland and healthy foods like salads and less spicy tacos on the day of a cum shot. When Stefano drinks pineapple juice hours before a shoot his cum taste gets better. I still don't want it in my mouth but I can suck him off longer without a condom on and not be grossed out.

Make sure your guy also drinks plenty of fluids. I once read an interview with the famous Peter North (who shoots ungodly cum loads) who said staying hydrated with coconut water helps him produce more cum. Considering he is famous for those loads, we thought it was advice worth trying. Stefano sticks with a lot of water along with his pineapple juice. The more hydrated he is, the more loads he shoots (we've literally tracked and logged this scientifically). The more loads he shoots, the thinner each shot of cum is. The thinner it is, the less it seems to bother me. Hard to say if that works for everyone, but it's certainly easy to try and see.

Happy cumming!





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