You have a problem. If you stumbled onto this please read and learn. If you were sent here because you messaged me and I gave you this link then REALLY read it and PAY ATTENTION before you message me back.
If I sent you this link it's because you're clueless. But don't worry, I'm not upset with you. Well, I might be but only if you were really rude or called me names. Regardless, I want to help you be a better person and a better communicator. I want to help you talk to women because, obviously, you don't know how or I wouldn't have sent this link to you!
Rude is calling me a name other than Stella (for the most part). For example, don't refer to me as babe or baby or anything like that. Never call me bitch or slut or anything like that, ever! It's one thing to tell a women that she is a babe, it's entirely different to call her babe like it's a pet name you gave her. Would you walk up to a girl at a party and say "Hey babe, wanna fuck?" I hope not. So why is that okay online? You probably think that because I'm a porn star it's okay but it's not. And now you know. Just call me Stella and be polite. Easy, right?
Also, don't send me dick pics. Not in the beginning. Not ever. Pretty much every girl dislikes those. For more on that please read The Truth About Dick Pics (And Butthole Photos)! It's rude to send a girl dick pics unless she's asked for them so don't be that guy.
It's totally fine to ask questions about my porn, our sex life, and stuff you see in our videos. But it's never okay to ask me about my life outside of porn and that means not asking me about my kids. What sort of sicko asks a porn star questions about their kids age, sex life, etc? More of you do this than I would have ever imagined! Dude, if you're thinking about my kids you've got issues and I have no interest in getting to know you on any level. Period. Keep it up and you will be blocked.
I live in Vaginatown, USA. It's a wonderful place where the trails are all trimmed and everything is constantly wet and perfect. This is all you need to know about where I live. If I wanted you to know more I'd list a specific city and state, wouldn't I? So don't message me asking where I live. That's too personal.
I wear a mask. It's not going to hide me forever or from everyone as I covered in this post. We knew this going into porn. But it does keep some people I know from recognizing me online. It also keeps strangers I might run into at a store or restaurant in my area from recognizing me. I wear it to keep a tiny bit of privacy in my life so don't ask me why I wear it and don't ask me to take it off for you.
I only speak English so if you want to message me it needs to be in English. I'm not going to go Google Translate your message but you can certainly do that to convert your text to English.
Speaking of English, I expect you to know how to write properly. Assuming you're an English speaker, please be sure to write correctly and spell correctly. Throw in some proper grammar for fun! Don't waste my time with texting shorthand. Nothing says you're a lazy bum more than things like "wyd" instead of taking the time to write something like "Hi Stella, what are you up doing now?"
Now, if you don't speak English natively that's okay. Google Translate your properly formatted language into English and the small mistakes are completely fine. Or just do the best you can, I can tell the difference between a lazy English speaker and someone who is translating to English so it's all okay!
Note that I'm not trying to scare you off! I like hearing from fans a lot! So, what should you say? I like when people start with a greeting like "Hi Stella" but don't waste your time or mine by just saying that or just a "hi" and nothing else. I get 100+ people a day that say "hi" or "hey" or "wyd". I'm at a point where I ignore those idiots.
Say hello but also tell me why you're messaging me. Maybe it's to offer a compliment. Maybe it's because you have a question. Whatever it is, put some thoughts down and I'll reply. Don't message me with a "hi" and then expect me to just create a conversation for you. Don't write "How are you" and nothing else because, if I reply at all, I'm just going to write "Well, and you?" and nothing else. Common courtesy is great, but write a full message so I know why you contacted me because you don't truly care how I am today.
I also don't care about your dick or its size. Don't waste my time asking me if I like BBC. I'm indifferent to skin color so, no, I don't crave your black cock no matter how big or small it is. Seriously, I'm blown away every time a black guy asks me if I love BBC. I'm sure some girls are super into that but skin color makes zero difference to me.
The only thing more annoying than the guy who asks to fuck is when I tell that guy no and he keeps asking. Seriously? You think women like being hounded like that? I know every guy wants to fuck a porn star but you're barking up the wrong tree. You should read How To Find A Girl To Make Porn With instead.
Anyhow, when you go and ask questions I've already covered on my profile it just shows me how lazy you are. After all, if you really were into me and really wanted to know me that's the first thing you'd read!
If I sent you this link it's because you're clueless. But don't worry, I'm not upset with you. Well, I might be but only if you were really rude or called me names. Regardless, I want to help you be a better person and a better communicator. I want to help you talk to women because, obviously, you don't know how or I wouldn't have sent this link to you!
Being Rude
When talking with any women, manners and etiquette are very important as I covered in Manners & Etiquette: A Guide To Communicating With Porn Stars & Sex Workers. Nobody likes rude people so why on earth would you think it's okay to be rude to a women that you don't even know? Well, maybe it's because you don't know what rude is so let me explain.Rude is calling me a name other than Stella (for the most part). For example, don't refer to me as babe or baby or anything like that. Never call me bitch or slut or anything like that, ever! It's one thing to tell a women that she is a babe, it's entirely different to call her babe like it's a pet name you gave her. Would you walk up to a girl at a party and say "Hey babe, wanna fuck?" I hope not. So why is that okay online? You probably think that because I'm a porn star it's okay but it's not. And now you know. Just call me Stella and be polite. Easy, right?
Also, don't send me dick pics. Not in the beginning. Not ever. Pretty much every girl dislikes those. For more on that please read The Truth About Dick Pics (And Butthole Photos)! It's rude to send a girl dick pics unless she's asked for them so don't be that guy.
Getting Too Personal
This one always blows my mind. I'm a porn star so that means I put a lot of my personal life out there for the world to see and enjoy. But that doesn't mean you get to ask me really personal questions about my life, kids, etc.It's totally fine to ask questions about my porn, our sex life, and stuff you see in our videos. But it's never okay to ask me about my life outside of porn and that means not asking me about my kids. What sort of sicko asks a porn star questions about their kids age, sex life, etc? More of you do this than I would have ever imagined! Dude, if you're thinking about my kids you've got issues and I have no interest in getting to know you on any level. Period. Keep it up and you will be blocked.
I live in Vaginatown, USA. It's a wonderful place where the trails are all trimmed and everything is constantly wet and perfect. This is all you need to know about where I live. If I wanted you to know more I'd list a specific city and state, wouldn't I? So don't message me asking where I live. That's too personal.
I wear a mask. It's not going to hide me forever or from everyone as I covered in this post. We knew this going into porn. But it does keep some people I know from recognizing me online. It also keeps strangers I might run into at a store or restaurant in my area from recognizing me. I wear it to keep a tiny bit of privacy in my life so don't ask me why I wear it and don't ask me to take it off for you.
Free Stuff
Don't message me asking for free stuff. I'm not going to send you nudes. I offer hundreds of nude photos and videos you can enjoy for free already. If you want to tip me on Pornhub, Manyvids, or Cashapp you shoudln't expect anything in return as you're tipping to show your support and love of my content. Of course, if you're a good tipper you likely WILL get something special taken just for YOU! Just don't count on it. Remember, I work to make money to live. I do not work for free.Shorthand / Spelling / Grammar / English
If you want to message me you can do so on Pornhub and Twitter. I respond the fastest on Pornhub and check that the most throughout the day but don't expect real time chatting. I don't use any other messaging apps and don't expect me to get you off by sexting you or anything like that.I only speak English so if you want to message me it needs to be in English. I'm not going to go Google Translate your message but you can certainly do that to convert your text to English.
Speaking of English, I expect you to know how to write properly. Assuming you're an English speaker, please be sure to write correctly and spell correctly. Throw in some proper grammar for fun! Don't waste my time with texting shorthand. Nothing says you're a lazy bum more than things like "wyd" instead of taking the time to write something like "Hi Stella, what are you up doing now?"
Now, if you don't speak English natively that's okay. Google Translate your properly formatted language into English and the small mistakes are completely fine. Or just do the best you can, I can tell the difference between a lazy English speaker and someone who is translating to English so it's all okay!
Note that I'm not trying to scare you off! I like hearing from fans a lot! So, what should you say? I like when people start with a greeting like "Hi Stella" but don't waste your time or mine by just saying that or just a "hi" and nothing else. I get 100+ people a day that say "hi" or "hey" or "wyd". I'm at a point where I ignore those idiots.
Say hello but also tell me why you're messaging me. Maybe it's to offer a compliment. Maybe it's because you have a question. Whatever it is, put some thoughts down and I'll reply. Don't message me with a "hi" and then expect me to just create a conversation for you. Don't write "How are you" and nothing else because, if I reply at all, I'm just going to write "Well, and you?" and nothing else. Common courtesy is great, but write a full message so I know why you contacted me because you don't truly care how I am today.
I also don't care about your dick or its size. Don't waste my time asking me if I like BBC. I'm indifferent to skin color so, no, I don't crave your black cock no matter how big or small it is. Seriously, I'm blown away every time a black guy asks me if I love BBC. I'm sure some girls are super into that but skin color makes zero difference to me.
My Profile
So you want to get to know me? Then read my profile on whatever site you're messaging me on. For example, on Pornhub I make it known that we're looking for girls (not guys) and that I'm taken. I do not want to have sex with other guys. Period. So don't message me asking to fuck. It's not happening. Unless you're a 20-40ish cute/petite girl, then we should talk!The only thing more annoying than the guy who asks to fuck is when I tell that guy no and he keeps asking. Seriously? You think women like being hounded like that? I know every guy wants to fuck a porn star but you're barking up the wrong tree. You should read How To Find A Girl To Make Porn With instead.
Anyhow, when you go and ask questions I've already covered on my profile it just shows me how lazy you are. After all, if you really were into me and really wanted to know me that's the first thing you'd read!
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